Advice on a good coalition to join

I have recently discovered this gem of a game, and I am looking for some help learning more about the game and collecting more CP so I can be more effective. It seems that joining a coalition is a good way to do so, and thus I would like some advice on which coalition to join. I am not a bad player now that I've figured out the basics, and I do love the game, but my life tends to get busy at points and so I can't say I will for sure be active more than once per week, which seems to be a sticking point for some coalitions.

TL;DR: Anyone want a new recruit?

Being as neutral as possible here...

Don't go for ones with buggerloads of players in because you'll get ignored, and they're semi-inactive anyway. They won't teach you much and they're very disorganised. A good coalition usually feels like family.

Don't go for ones with a really low minimum entry requirement. Those are usually pretty crap, and are in the same category with the above.

Don't go for ones that have people you don't like in them. Because to be trained to be a better player and hang out in [cln] chat, you need to get on with people. So avoid ones that have people on your enemies' list in them.

That's my advice anyway, and I've been in 3 (or 4, though I stayed in one for literally 2 days) coalitions. I even became an effective leader of one (/int/) but those glory days wouldn't last for long (we got pwned by Dalmati and Kanker Elysium). So I know what I'm talking about